shoutouts to those low maintenance best friends. the ones who you don’t speak to for months because both of yall are living life but when you catch up it’s nothing but intense love.
I think I’ve decided that I’m going to have a conversation with my boss tomorrow. It just baffles me that we’re pulling a full weekend shift and than to pull a 10 hour shift monday? Like our agreement was that monday’s were our days off, I just don’t understand it and I’m so frustrated and as much as I want to kick and scream, I know i have to be civil about it and just have a normal conversation but I’m so tired of being pushed around like I’m worth nothing.
It’s not fair when the girl who’s been there only 8 months gets treated like she’s the assistant manager and not the person who’s been there for you for the past 3 years (and IS the Assist. Manager!!) and has worked her ass off to save you. Like i’m so frustrated and ugh. Like I get you’re friends but I don’t give my best friend any special benefits, so why should you?
What ever happened to “dates”?
All everyone talks about now is fucking. Oh you’re sexy I wanna plow you. What about, “you are beautiful, let me take you out sometime?” I am tired of everyone wanting to just bust a nut. Romance is amazing. Keep it classy people, ask for dates instead of sex
Things To Remember
- Don’t be angry at yourself when anxiety/depression flares up. It isn’t your fault and no one blames you and if they do they’re pieces of shit.
- Don’t orbit around your perceived value so much. You’re not the sum total of what you produce.
- Don’t let yourself wonder why people love you. That’s not how it works. There are not stark, individual reasons that a person can enumerate about why they love you. It’s the entire, unique combination of what and who you are.